A common scenario that any guy would face in the dating game is when he meets a woman he wants to go out with, she would want to be ‘just friends’.

When you get the ‘let’s just be friends’ speech from the woman, it normally means one of the following two things. Either you did not generate enough attraction in her, or if you have made her attracted to you, she did not feel comfortable to be with you.

Building both attraction AND comfort is the biggest key to bridge from platonic to seduction. Ironic it may seem, but the skill of building attraction and comfort comes with BEING FRIENDS WITH WOMEN.

Making friends with women (especially those with the traits that you want) is easily the best way for you to improve your game because of the following reasons.

1. You will learn women behavior. No amount of reading will equip you with the knowledge of the woman psyche. Being around women would make you aware of the subtleties of women behavior.

2. You will become comfortable around women. If you’re not comfortable with the women that you want to attract, you’re not going to attract them. It’s that simple.

3. You will get to meet more women. If you are friends with an attractive woman, it is highly likely that she also hangs out with women who are as beautiful as her. You’ll get more chances to interact with attractive women.

To improve your game, go on and start making friends with the type of women you want to be with. Stop thinking about bedding them. Once you’ve sorted them out, they will all eat out of your hands.